Hello lovelies… How are you doing this sunny Saturday afternoon??? What have you been up to all week???
Today, we shall be looking at “Insecurities” which I believe is a very important topic worth discussing!!!
Without further ado, let’s get down to business…
“Insecurity” is the anxiety/uncertainty about oneself, lack of confidence.
Also, it is the state of being open to danger or threat, lack of protection.
But, for the purpose of this blog post we shall be focusing on the first definition…
Feelings of insecurity vary among individuals… But today, we shall be touching only one which is “feelings of insecurity based on looks/appearance” – (weight, hair colour, eye colour, height, breast size, e.t.c)
This particular feeling of insecurity is common among girls/women( y’all know we care a great deal about our looks and how other people see us).
Generally, women are much more concerned about their appearance than men are because their appearance is central to how they are evaluated by others.
This feeling of insecurity among most women is driven by competition with other women.
Today, the various social media platforms are playing a huge role in the increased rate of this particular feeling of insecurity
Feelings of insecurity based on looks has deteriorated so badly that most young girls now compare themselves to celebs and social media queens…
These days you see girls looking into the mirror and not appreciating their reflections.
*God created us wonderfully, fearfully and beautifully… So do not allow anyone to make you feel/think lesser of yourself!!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!
– Admit to yourself that you have insecurities.
– Admit to others that you have insecurities.
– Eliminate all those from your life who try to take advantage of your insecurities (By Eliminate, I don’t mean “kill”… Eliminate in this context, means you should keep a distance from such people).
-Last but definitely not the least, prove to yourself that you can be happy and fulfilled regardless of what you are insecure about…
Thanks for stopping by and taking out time to read this…
You can share your thought about this writeup or share some of your insecurities and how you are dealing/have dealt with them in the comment box below👇👇👇👇